Thursday, July 15, 2010

Hoping and Wishing for Success

Just as we choose to interpret words according to our circumstances, we can also choose to interpret our circumstances according to our words. Take the word "hope" for example. Hope can mean:

1) To wish for something with expectation of its fulfillment.
2) To look forward to with confidence or expectation.
3) To expect and desire.

To some, hope is closely related to "wish" and so let's look at the definition of wish:

1) A desire, longing, or strong inclination for a specific thing.
3) Something desired or longed for.

What seems to be the difference between hoping and wishing? Hope carries with it an expectation of fulfillment rather than just desire for fulfillment.

Some people wish they were more successful and some people hope to be more successful. Which would you rather associate with...those who wish or those who hope?

For me, I prefer those that hope. Wishing is great, but hoping implies action towards the desired outcome. Only a fool would hope for success when no effort had been expended towards achieving it.

We can all choose which group we fall into, the hopers or the wishers. Of course, there is little risked by merely wishing for success. On the other hand, hoping for success and actually doing something about it, brings failure into the picture...but that's a topic for another post.

I'm hoping to have a great day!

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